| An
Authors Perspective
All parents want
the best possible education for their
children, but sometimes
they assume that the
best school on paper is the best
school for their child. However,
just like a career, a
school that is appropriate for one
may not be right for another. I
personally feel that the right school is one
in which your child both enjoys the curriculum
and has good peer relationships, and has
a guiding mission that
you can support as a family. If your
child is happy at his or her school and you are
satisfied with its academic
quality, I would of course recommend re-enrolling.
However, it is sometimes
necessary to explore other options and re-assess
what feels appropriate, both for you and your
child.
My first recommendation is
to take advantage of question-and-answer
discussions at a prospective school's open house;
I find that they are an excellent way to get
a sense of the school's overall environment. After visiting
several schools, you should
begin to independently
research your favorites, looking
for obvious aspects that might provide the
most comfortable fit for
your child, and then request the
admittance policies and procedures from each. Experience
has confirmed my belief in two educational principles
time and time again: first
and foremost, you should always trust your instincts,
and secondly, you need to be objective and honest
about your child's ability versus
the school's expectations.
Sometimes research alone is not sufficient. As an education
strategist, I have had the opportunity to meet with
countless families to discuss complex issues concerning
their educational choices. Some
of the more common issues are:
-A child is asked to relocate to a more appropriate
school after it is determined
the school cannot meet the needs of the child.
-A family is new to the
DFW area.
-A family needs
an expert opinion
in choosing between the
schools their child has been accepted
to.
-A family needs additional
advice about school evaluation criteria.
-A family is overwhelmed
by the school search, the
admissions process, or both, and
need coaching and/or a comprehensive
strategy to ensure educational
success.
As a parent of three, I have personally experienced
many unexpected school changes,
and these experieces, along with my 16 years of educational
consulting work, have taught me that finding
the right school for your child takes time and patience. I
have dedicated my professional career to helping families
get most from one of the greatest gifts a child can
receive, and I sincerely hope that either
I, my book, or
this companion website
can make a difference in the educational future of your
family.
Education is what survives when what has been learned
has been forgotten.
B.F. Skinner
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